People Who Claim to be Pro-Life Confuse Me.

Douchebag: (Doo-sh-bag) n.  One who works to outlaw safe medical procedures for women while insisting vaccines should be optional.
Use in a sentence:  Sean Hannity  should visit countries where vaccinations are rare and see what the measles do without treatment or prevention.  Sean Hannity is a Douchebag.

The term Pro-Life, is a like a dog whistle, but instead of sound, the Pro-Life Whistle uses identity.  Those who identify themselves as Pro-Life, hear the words, ‘Pro-Life” and start arguing against any idea that suggests women who have abortions are not cold-hearted baby killers.  We who have have had abortions are not cold-hearted baby killers.  We don’t wake up and decide to go have an abortion to earn points  on a punch card to receive a free one on the eleventh visit.  Abortion is a medical procedure.  And for many women, it is the dreaded choice after exhausting every option to have a healthy baby, or save our own lives so we do not orphan the babies we already have.  Also there’s a choice we make to have an abortion because it is what is best for the person making the choice.

As someone who has terminated a pregnancy, I speak from experience.  It is absolutely none of your business why I had an abortion.  I’m really only admitting it because we are still fighting to keep it legal for 40+ years.  That, and I don’t give a rat’s ass what you think of me because I decided to do so.  I will give you a hint:  My birth control failed, there was no Plan B option at the time, I was in my 20’s and it had nothing to do with saving my life.  I have heard people say things like, “Women use abortion instead of birth control.”  In my 44 years, I have met only one woman who  does not use contraception of any kind and has no qualms about terminating a pregnancy if one happens through carelessness.  This does not make me an expert on abortions, but that does tell me how few people I have experienced on my path, who have done that, and that is her right.  I don’t have to agree or disagree with anyone when it comes to their own body.  The people who will pay the cost of restricting rights to safe and legal rare procedures, are all women.

If you don’t believe in abortion for any reason, then don’t have one.  Please stop spouting misinformation and harassing women who are forced into situations you cannot possible imagine.  Please get out of our ovaries and do something that will actually help children; like funding free lunch programs, free day care or preschool programs, and domestic violence treatment and prevention.  Don’t hide behind some passage in The Bible and dare to call yourself a Christian, then  mandate pain and suffering onto fellow humans.  Yes, I have terminated a pregnancy, long before I even had scleroderma.  If I were to get pregnant today, I would terminate the pregnancy because I will most likely die,  and honestly, even if new information came about that revealed I would be fine, I’d still terminate the pregnancy.  I don’t have to justify it.  I can’t rely on oral birth control due to high blood pressure likelihood, and risk of stroke.   I cannot risk an invasive sterilization procedure because my body destroys its own cells.   I must rely on a thin piece of rubber and if that breaks, I have Plan B to keep a potentially fertilized egg from implanting itself into the lining of my uterus.    It’s my body.  How dare you judge me for decisions I  make regarding my own well being. If you get pregnant, do what you feel is right.  Stop trying to regulate my ovaries and uterus and proclaim vaccination should be a choice.  T here are diseases that are killing people who are suffering and in great pain.  Doing something to help those in need of a cure, and need assistance while waiting.   Stop obsessing over zygotes and fetuses.  Take care of those who are out of the womb.  Stop calling sick people lazy and vilifying the poor.  Stop watching Fox News, and pick up a book.   Don’t regulate my ovaries and proclaim vaccinations should be a choice.