In the late 80’s it was all about hair bands and the “X” in Sex. Now its the ’10’s and it’s Sclerodactly & the “S” in CREST. (Click here to see a picture of my hands) Oh how times have changed. (& no I will not post a picture of me in animal print spandex)
Here are some things I miss:
Throwing a baseball
I could go on and on but the truth is, I have spent enough time pining over what I can’t do. Here’s what I can do:
Clap with my wrists
Play catch with a bigger ball.
Play Legos with my son
Get the best parking spots
Use my expanded vocabulary that includes many latin based words
Appreciate the metric system (Why are we NOT using it? So much easier!)
Type like Peter Jennings did, with two fingers.
The ability to tell if a CD case is empty just by picking it up. That has nothing to do with Scleroderma but it is an underappreciated skill.
CREST has changed the way I do things, but it has not stopped me from doing what I want to do. (Well, except rock climbing- but I’m working on that.) My point is, I can choose to focus on what I can or cannot do. Both lists would be right. The list I choose to focus on does make a difference on how I face my health issues when I wake from my dreams of normal hands to the reality of the hands I have.
I can’t believe I found this video: Enjoy the spandex and younger KISS without make-up.